Why is it that the Thanksgiving Holiday season brings so much pain – especially when it is supposed to be a time for being thankful for what we have? It appears that the energies surrounding this year have intensified even more the challenges that many people are experiencing (especially the Canadian Thanksgiving which is celebrated over 6 weeks prior to the US – hopefully by the end of Nov the outside energies may be less intense). Regardless of the time of year that your culture celebrates ‘Thanksgiving’ the fear during this season is still a theme that requires thought. After all, what is it about these Holidays that creates such anxiety and fear?
I had an amazing interview with my favorite nuclear physicist Tom Campbell at the beginning of the month that we labeled “Tough Love”. This show had some very controversial points made that listeners responded to. The show really discussed how to ‘Let Go’ but most of the responses were to comments made around Victim Consciousness and that is why I am going to write about it this month. Also ‘victim consciousness’ fits with the typical theme of November which is family and holidays. How do these link to Victim Consciousness? They link because usually our triggers and issues around holidays and family have to do with us taking things personally and then going into feeling like we are the victim. Continue reading
Laurie Huston from News the Heart is talking with physicist Tom Campbell on Letting Go through Tough Love. This conversation begins with us discussing that most of us aren’t able to let go because we don’t see that we have a choice. We discussed why our Ego holds on to our fears and how we get really stuck if we go into the victim mentality. He helps us again to understand that our beliefs, intention and fears will effect whether we can let go or whether we let our egos take over. We moved into how our fears stop us from letting go of relationships again this is through our fears. Relationships all assist us to grow, however, if we get caught in victim mentality or falling in Need with someone instead of Unconditional Love we fail to learn our lessons. This is where his Tough Love comes in, Tom reminds us exactly why we enter relationships and how to BE in relationships and how to Grow Up. It is through our intention to Grow towards Love or just Grow Up that the larger consciousness system that will help us and we can come from a place of BEing instead of an intellectual understanding that has no effect on whether we Grow Up. The changes, our Growing towards Love, effect us from a BEing level and rarely work if they just come from ‘doing’ or a mental wish. Remember we are here to Grow towards Love not stay stuck in our fears! Join us for this fascinating discussion! We’re Getting to the Heart of what Matters!