Ego: Bad or Misunderstood?

As I am considering writing a book on fear and after my latest Blog which tried to define Fear – I feel the need to clarify fear and its relationship to Ego especially since many ‘spiritual’ teachers out there believe we need to get rid of our Ego because it is what holds us back from Becoming Enlightened. I work with a different opinion – at least under our current evolution – we are NOT in a place where we can just get rid of our Ego. We have a lot of growing up to do and we have too much fear as a society that our Ego is the only way for most of us to Grow at all.

So let’s approach this from a logical perspective. As a whole we are still living in a third dimensional world which breaks down through a process we call ‘entropy’ and becomes less … orderly. And what causes the break down in this three dimensional world? Fear. Fear is the opposite of Love and it is Love and its related kindness, compassion, acceptance that builds our world. And in this world that we live in we each have an Ego – an Ego that mostly runs our lives. Our Ego also is what pushes us to Grow Up because it is our Ego that is triggered when we focus on ‘us’ instead of ‘we’ or ‘you’. And when we sense ‘fear’ in our lives we focus on ourselves – and if we forget Love – we then experience pain and suffering. So in the midst of this pain there is a positive side effect related to the Ego and the value of having the Ego in place: If we didn’t experience the pain and suffering that our Ego alerts us to we might never have the desire to grow towards love. Continue reading

News for the Heart talks with Tom Campbell on Tough Love

Laurie Huston from News the Heart is talking with physicist Tom Campbell on Letting Go through Tough Love. This conversation begins with us discussing that most of us aren’t able to let go because we don’t see that we have a choice. We discussed why our Ego holds on to our fears and how we get really stuck if we go into the victim mentality. He helps us again to understand that our beliefs, intention and fears will effect whether we can let go or whether we let our egos take over. We moved into how our fears stop us from letting go of relationships again this is through our fears. Relationships all assist us to grow, however, if we get caught in victim mentality or falling in Need with someone instead of Unconditional Love we fail to learn our lessons. This is where his Tough Love comes in, Tom reminds us exactly why we enter relationships and how to BE in relationships and how to Grow Up. It is through our intention to Grow towards Love or just Grow Up that the larger consciousness system that will help us and we can come from a place of BEing instead of an intellectual understanding that has no effect on whether we Grow Up. The changes, our Growing towards Love, effect us from a BEing level and rarely work if they just come from ‘doing’ or a mental wish. Remember we are here to Grow towards Love not stay stuck in our fears! Join us for this fascinating discussion! We’re Getting to the Heart of what Matters!

News for the Heart talks with Tom Campbell on Conscious Evolution

Laurie Huston from News the Heart is talking with physicist Tom Campbell on Ego, Growth, Consciousness, Intention and Control. This deep conversation began with an experience I had that Tom and I often discuss around Me versus Other. Learning how to detach ourselves and give space for the other to BE allows us to shift our triggers and BEcome more conscious in our lives. This also allows us an opportunity to detach from our emotions that are only perceived by our story. We also discussed 3 questions from our listeners, 1. on Intention and Control and how they are confusing, especially if we bring Law of Attraction into our intentions. Intention that is from a place of BEing instead of end goal is the way we can maintain letting go of our control over our lives and allow what is happening to BE. 2nd question was around crying and ego and whether this is helping us grow. Being authentic is important and although crying is for each person’s ego, it doesn’t hinder our growth unless it moves into suffering. And the 3rd question was around energy and clothes which will continue next month as it brought up a great deal of information around Intention and our tools to assist us in our growing. We discussed how the differences between energy, data and tools we use will assist us in our growing towards love. Join us for this important discussion! We’re Getting to the Heart of what Matters!

From Me to Unconditional Love and Acceptance

This past month I have been very aware and focused on something that I have been discussing with Tom Campbell (and others) and writing about for the past couple of years: How to come from a place of unconditional love and acceptance. We often are too focused on how others affect us or when something happens; we unconsciously look at how it impacts us. An example would be when interacting in a relationship and there is a conflict we automatically look at what this conflict means to us. We take whatever the conflict is personally and we react personally and this means we react from a place of ego. We allow what is happening to trigger us emotionally and we perceive it from a pattern that has created a story in our lives. Continue reading

Understanding Our Choices

Understanding our choices is the topic I want to explore this month. This month has been filled with choices: some I found were sabotaging and others empowering. I filled my days during this Venus retrograde with new choices and becoming conscious of my sabotaging efforts as a result of those choices.

I have been preparing for my interview with the Hulnick’s on their new book “Remembering the Light Within” which has been very confirming of my work over the past few years and my work with this material brought up some of the key points I am working with in this article. These key points were further anchored through me and my clients in recent weeks. Continue reading

News for the Heart talks with Tom Campbell on Realities

tomcampbellLaurie Huston from News the Heart is talking with physicist Tom Campbell on our Reality. This is a deep conversation about our different realities, probable reality, dream reality and how we create our Reality. It is always about Choice. We discuss that Tom’s work on News for the Heart is how to apply his theories. We talk about virtual reality and how this is being backed up with science now. That what is ‘real’ is us as a consciousness, not the body or world that is virtual; the physical context of this reality is not ‘real’. It is our decisions and capability to Love that is our ‘truth’ and consciousness. Our choices on either Fear (devolving) or Love (evolving) determines what and where our consciousness is and it is our consciousness that is experiencing our choices that is ‘real’!  The whole point of this physical reality is to make choices and to evolve the quality of our consciousness towards love through making ‘loving & caring decisions’; choices about others not just yourself. We have to own our problems, take responsibility for our choices and own our triggers. We discussed how anger or negative emotions just create more of the same energies. We create our Karma when we step into the vibration of anger. We raise the probability of living in a world that makes you angry. When you feel a negative emotion, anger, stress, pain… ask yourself Why do you feel that way! When the answer is because ‘they’ aren’t doing it the way I want it, you know you are choosing Fear and Ego; it’s all about YOU! And that’s the problem… which gives us an opportunity to make another choice, one of Love! Join us for this fascinating discussion! We’re Getting to the Heart of what Matters!

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