Nov 2012 Newsletter ~ BEing vs Doing

Happy Post Halloween and Frankenstorm

I hope that everyone is well or recovering after the difficult challenges we have had these past few weeks and ending with the Storm of the century earlier this week! Just in time for Mercury Retrograde and the eclipses this month. Be sure to listen in via the link below to Nancy Arruda, in house astrologer to assist with dealing with what is happening in the Universal Sky’s, and David Watson also did a show on Dealing with Natural Disasters this month.

I’m still working on my website with regards to my “pharma hack” please be patient, the shows are not being updated while this process is continuing, however, if you go to or, you can find all my Intuitive Soul shows on podcasts, where you can listen to them there.

My Inspiration for this month:

I’ve been doing a lot of contemplation on being versus doing. We all know how to do. Typically we do things when we are unhappy or we “want” something. This is almost always from a place of ego and it is from a place outside of us. It comes as a response to when we want to “fix” or change something that isn’t working or causing us perceived problems. It may also be when we want to change someone by fixing them. We look outside ourselves and try and do, which means we analyze, plan, decide, judge, evaluate, and manipulate through our expressed fears, expectations and beliefs. When we are in this state, we are in a state of doing. And it is all ego – we are only concerned about ourselves and what we want. We are “doing” something to control a situation so that we can become happy by doing something else, presumably because what we are doing isn’t working. I am not referring to service to others, but rather, to when we are doing something to try and fix or control our situation.

We have been made to believe that using our minds, analyzing, planning, deciding, judging, evaluating and manipulating is a positive thing; even something reverend in our society as someone highly educated. However, it is still a form of controlling others if we are in a state of being that is fear based and we are only focused on how we can make ourselves happy, then what we are doing is right and they need to be changed or a situation needs to be changed. Often this is caused from looking outside ourselves instead of within us, which means trying to change the outside to make us happy inside, instead of looking on the inside and letting our outer environment reflect our inner state of being.

When we try to do something from this state of ego and fear, we are only concerned with self, our self-image, self-worth, which is a dysfunctional response as we are still looking outside ourselves; we can’t make significant changes if we are only looking externally. We are taking care of and assessing the values of our self instead of serving others. We are only wanting from our perspective. This isn’t what “self-love” is about. It is an unhealthy response to our own wellbeing. Self-love is a surrendering to the Divine Self within us. It is diving into our hearts and being authentically us. We evolve from coming from a place of compassion and our desire to give to others from a place of service.

We seem to understand what doing is, however, the question is, what is being? Being does not stand from doing something to get us where we want to be, there are “right actions” that we will naturally do if we are in the correct space of being. Being isn’t something that will make us happy; being comes from an authentic state that is within us. If we are centered, balanced, authentic and in the now moment, then the state we are in, is what we are “being”! Often we are stuck in the past or in the future and we will only be able to do something, because we are totally unaware of what state we are being! Or our state of being is from confusion, lack of presence and unconscious.

I believe we have to come from a place of courage that will allow us to come from a state of “being”. That we can only grow up if we learn to come from a place of compassion, service and love. However, it is fear that typically rules our day as we are unconscious instead of conscious.

CBS Radio:
Voices of Soul, with co-host Jean Adrienne and I, is every Mon at 1pm EST. This is a dynamic show bringing the best of advice through my intuitive counseling and her Inner Speak clearing Cards. We will have various discussions throughout the month! Jean and I are a dynamic duo where I offer readings and she offers clearings. We have agreed to offer a 30 mins session for our listeners and our newsletter recipients. It is only $75… I encourage you to experience it for yourself! We can go through tough issues quickly! On Nov 5th, we are talking with Helen Goldstein on her new Corporate training for Teachers online.

Intuitive Soul on Wednesdays: Every first and third Wednesday at 1pm EST I have co-host Nancy Arruda
Nov 7th Co-host Nancy Arruda
Nov 14th TBA
Nov 21st Co-host Nancy Arruda
Nov 28th Co-host Jennifer Kautz, ( Dream Analyst

Intuitive Soul and Friends, on Fridays at 1pm EST I have 4 co-hosts David Watson, Tracy McBurney, Mikael Meir and Thomas Campbell.
David Watson, ( Nov 2nd, “Shift Happens”
Tracy McBurney, ( Nov 9th, Energy Consciousness
Mikael Meir, ( Nov 16th, Business Consciousness
TBA Nov 23rd
Thomas Campbell, ( Nov 30th, Quantum Physics and Consciousness

The Sky is available to US residents only via, the AOL Radio player and Yahoo LAUNCHcast You can ask a question by calling (248) 545-SOUL (7685) or sending an instant feedback question on the main page. So, please join me… Also, you can subscribe to my podcast of the show each week here. (go to the bottom of the page to subscribe. All shows will also be on my website) We in Canada, currently are unable to listen live to the show, but the downloads/podcasts are fine 🙂
Join me for live Readings all month!

This month, Angelo Corriero is bringing Susan Northrope to Toronto
Stop HURTING, Start HEALING, Toronto, Canada November 29th-December 2nd, 2012 go here for tickets
Struggling with the loss of a loved one? Feeling confused, alone, depressed? Want to know if your loved one is well and happy?
Suzane Northrop is a leading expert on bereavement and the grieving process. She has helped thousands worldwide heal from the loss of loved ones, and now she’s coming to Toronto!
This is a rare opportunity to experience Suzane’s unmatched insight and talent in an engaging event. During the Seminar, you will learn and experience first hand the possibilities of profound healing when we reconnect with your loved ones, reconnect with love, reconnect with knowing that love truly never dies! To learn more about Suzane Northrop, visit go here for tickets

With Love and an Open Heart,