Hello Wonderful Friends!!
Happy Solstice and summer Holidays!! We have one more Eclipse on Fri July 1st (be gentle to yourselves). This month I want to discuss Letting Go and Being Open. It is part of the shift I have been making in my life, as I expand to embrace whatever new opportunities are coming. Summer is the time of a gentle lightness. Not always a time to make big changes, yet it is a time to open up to possibilities. I am excited to see what comes as we open our hearts. I have a new Toll Free number for anyone in North America. It is 1-855-444-SOUL (7685). For everyone in the GTA it is still the same 416-690-6391 .
Surrendering isn’t easy, and staying open while letting go of things you want, is even more challenging. Sometimes when we are going through change, there are little gifts being offered. Yet, most often we judge and try to control our lives. This closes us down and typically, we don’t even see, let alone allow these gifts to materialize in our lives. However, the gifts become more precious if we can remain open and allow them in.
Many have asked what “staying open” means or what it is like. This isn’t easy to explain in a world where we like to control everything and keep it the same. It means, allowing without judgement, all events and people to occur and happen within our experiences, consciously and with discernment. It means following the thread of passion or pleasure as it happens. To continue along this path as long as it brings you happiness. Also, it is about exploring your responses consciously. It means if you meet someone who makes you happy, even if they don’t meet your criteria (whether you are aware or not, we seem to have biases and a list of criteria for all people we meet), to remain open to it all. Because even if they may only be there for a short time, they ARE there to show you something. Even if it is just seeing your judgements!
We prejudge many people because of who we think we are. We have biases that restrict and control people we will be friends with, based on a definition of who we are, eg certain education level, similar interests and passions. Maybe our parents taught us to accept only certain people, and we limit who we let into our lives, and our growth, as a result. Relationships are the most key ingredient to our growth, and we often limit who we will be friends with based on certain criteria or judgements.
Our lives are controlled based on the decisions we make, and the only way we can grow is to let go and allow change into our lives. As I am going through my own metamorphosis and letting go of the predefined life I believed I “should” have… I found precious gifts waiting for me. Some have been to see my limitations and judgments. Others have been to allow me to open up and experience life from a different perspective.
I have realized that if we want change, we have to be willing to do, be and act differently. Opening up to all areas of our lives, letting go of the judgments and how we control each area is the beginning.
CBS Radio, every Wed evening at 7pm EST, beginning again July 6th! The Sky is available to US residents only via Sky.Radio.com, the AOL Radio playerradio.aol.com and Yahoo LAUNCHcast new.music.yahoo.com/launchcast. You can ask a question by calling (248) 545-SOUL (7685) or sending an instant feedback question on the main page. So, please join me… Also, you can subscribe to my podcast of the show each week here. (go to the bottom of the page to subscribe. All shows will also be on my website) We in Canada, currently are unable to listen live to the show, but the downloads/podcasts are fine.
July is Letting Go and Being Open month on my CBS Intuitive Soul show, you can email or call in your questions!! Join me for live Readings all month on the topics below!
Jul 6 Letting Go and Being Open
Jul 13 How Self Love assists to Being Open
Jul 20 How all Relationships assist you to express Being Open
Jul 27 How Romantic Relationships assist you to express Being Open
Voices of Soul, with co-host Jean Adrienne and I is every Mon at 1pm EST. This is a dynamic show bringing the best of advice through my intuitive counseling and her Inner Speak Cards. We will have various discussions throughout the month!
Intuitive Soul Radio: Thurs evenings at 7pm EST/DT (we are currently on Hiatus until another venue has been established)
I am excited to be having Author Dena Saxer coming to Toronto to do a workshop on Nov 12. The workshop will be on: THE TAO OF LONGEVITY from 10 am – 4 pm. Learn to Rejuvenate blood, bones, joints, major organs, sexual energy through Tao teachings. She is Senior Tao Instructor Dena Saxer, M.A., trained by Mantak Chia; they have co-authored 3 books together (including Emotional Wisdom, listen to our interview Dena Saxer 25/03/10 Author of Emotional Wisdom). $120; after Oct 28th, $140. Contact: me to get more information and book your class.
My Heart’s Way group will start more groups in 2011 to work through the 8 steps of my new program “A Heart’s Way: How to Align with your Soul’s Purpose and Manifest your True Dreams. Below is the 8 steps we will cover. Let me know if you are interested in Finding your Heart’s Way. Private coaching is also available for this program. Also, Jean Adrienne and I will be offering a 6 week Teleclass coming SOON on this great information!
1.Get Clear about what you really want.
2.Uncover how limiting beliefs/habits/stories hold you back and keep you stuck.
3.Live in Present Moment Awareness. Break through your patterns and reactions to be in charge of your responses.
4.Shift from your head to your heart with the tools that lead to acceptance, non-judgment and witness consciousness.
5.Practices that still the Mind, Body and Spirit. Hear the gentle guidance of the Heart.
6.Trusting your Intuition and your Innate Inner Guidance.
7.Begin to Express your Authenticity, the natural soul essence of who you are.
8.Align with your Soul Purpose, where you can feel more confident, empowered, and live from inner happiness to manifest your true dreams.
With Love and an Open Heart,