April Newsletter 2014 ~ Are you Compromising too much?

Happy Easter Laurie!

easter-bunnies1I’m writing this on March 30th, day of the New Moon in Aries, the official beginning of the New Astrological Year 2014. I feel the “newness” of the day and the hope that Spring may finally be here. Although, I’m not sure our weather gods have received the memo. Yet, we are beginning to see the end of the -Celsius weather, at least during the day. Fingers crossed that it will continue.

April is when BeMajor.org is taking off, my shows aren’t completely booked up yet, so please refer to facebook for when my shows are happening. I also may have sent you a facebook friend request from BeMajor.org’s  new profile and page, please take some time and join us! Our shows will also be updated there too!

I also want to remind you that we have 2 eclipses this month, full moon, total lunar eclipse April 15th and a solar eclipse on April 29th (which is also another new moon in Aries… which gives New Beginnings an extra boost) and is considered one of the first “blood moons” which is a biblical prophecy. (From what I’ve read, two Christian pastors, Mark Blitz and John Hagee, use the term Blood Moon to apply to the full moons of the upcoming tetrad – four successive total lunar eclipses, with no partial lunar eclipses in between, each of which is separated from the other by six lunar months (six full moons) – in 2014 and 2015. John Hagee appears to have popularized the term in his 2013 book Four Blood Moons: Something is About to Change.) I’m excited to see what may occur beginning this month, but I honestly believe that good things are in store for us, not the prophecy of dread or end of the world! Eclipse’s do have a lot of extra energy to offer and people who are sensitive may not like the energy, but they will
move us forward and that is what it is all about!

Happy Easter!!

My Inspiration this Month
I’ve been contemplating compromise in the grand scheme of our lives. We are taught that we should be “in service” to the world; that if we want to love it is about “giving”; and that our ego is “bad”. Then I reflected upon our dreams and desires, how we need to set intentions and be clear about what we want so the Universe can deliver our dreams, as long as we can let go and not try to control the outcome. I also considered relationships, which is really the only way we grow, so therefore, are probably one of the most important resources to develop. And finally, I pondered about what it means to focus outside ourselves instead of inside where the magic can happen. These thoughts all brought me to try and understand whether we compromise too much of who we are in life, so that we can follow the expectations of the world (spiritually, mentally, physically and emotionally).

We seem to live in a world full of dichotomy, full of demands and expectations, full of what is “right vs wrong” and it becomes difficult to wrap our minds around what we need to do for ourselves. Do we compromise who we are in relationships, whether they are our intimate relationships, family, friends or work colleagues? I know I have! Trying to do the right thing often leads us to compromise something within us. A dream, a belief or a value that is incongruent to who we are at a soul level. When our boss requests we do something, and our job is contingent on completing our tasks, do we have a choice? What about when our spouse requests we set aside something that we are doing to assist them, or want us to do something that we don’t or can’t because it is against our inner core? The other problem is when are we just feeding our ego and its needs, doing something that is what we need from a soul desire or opening our hearts and just plain giving? Ego is really just what we want! It doesn’t take into consideration “others”. Compromise and ego don’t really have a middle ground. Do our dreams, intentions and desires have to take a back seat to compromising for the good of our relationships?

When is compromising the “right” thing to do and when does it corrode who we are and our Soul’s dreams? We have to honor our inner convictions and inner self. I think part of the problem is that we aren’t always conscious of our inner values and belief systems. Probably this is where we have to begin the search or deep understanding of who we are. I believe that when two people are in a relationship dynamic that comes from different spectrums of the same thought (example is the love vs fear spectrum, one person may be responding from a place of love, the other from fear) we can discuss it rationally to get the other person to see both sides of the spectrum. But sometimes it may be about compromising part of what you need for the greater good of the relationship. Perhaps as long as you aren’t settling for something that is essential to who you are, maybe compromising is okay. Or maybe it has more to do with as long as we are whole and residing in and honouring that place of wholeness within ourselves, when someone asks us to do something, it is not a compromise, you just do it or you don’t and there is no story about it because you are whole and you are existing in that place of wholeness. The problem comes from when we are not in this state or place of wholeness and then we simply exist from a place and state of compromise. This is when awareness is key to our understanding of what is compromise and how we define who we are!

Take some time and reflect how well you are able to honour and respect yourself in relationship with yourself and in relationship with others. Are there areas in your life where you compromise yourself? Maybe some areas you have mastered and others need some attention.

It is important to recognize the difference between compromising what you want and compromising who you are.

Stay tuned, I will have more information on my new endeavors and NEW shows this month. Check on Facebook for posts!

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With Love and an Open Heart,

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